Zen for Relations


 

Zen for Relations


Perhaps  it may seem new or provocative, or even impossible – to use  Zen approach to a relationship.

Maybe Zen from books is associated with monasteries, renunciation and being alone, in isolation from family, society, the opposite sex …

 Yes, in the past, it was just so … great tradition has been established, where the approach has allowed for centuries to keep it alive … And it stays alive exactly where it could go beyond the usual rituals and worshipping, adoration etc…

Living Zen  is laughter, humor, lightness, spontaneity, unpredictability …

These qualities, in our opinion, are necessary components of any harmonious relationship.

The fact is that Zen provides energy and focus turn inwards – where one meets everything needed.

Only a contented, self-loving and self-accepting person is ready to ripe a harmonious, constructive, evolving relationship.

 Zen helps to open the hidden “time bombs” – all sorts of expectations, requirements, hierarchy, past history, unconscious moments …

Any relation always reach the point where they need either to separate or to take a joint decision to grow, develop, follow this path together, knowing that it will not always be easy, that stereotypes and illusions will die, the world will open its new sides, we would say even mysteries, magical moments …

 

Zen practice allows you to “take an inventory” of internal space – the area where needs arise, projections, transfers, substitutions, and other unconscious mechanisms of creating patterns, repetition, behavior scripts …

Traveling together can become one of the most exciting adventures of your life, in our experience this way is worthy of being studied …

It is free from any kind of ideas – just a mutual decision of two people whose hearts beat in unison, to be fellow travelers, friends, masters and mirrors for each other, giving each other the necessary freedom, support and presence …

 

To do this requires a creative approach – no plans can be, no possession can be, no dictatorship can be …

Meditation gives the keys …  Creativity gives you tools to transform attachments, jealousy, competition … whatever … into something beautiful … juicy… exiting 

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Approaching closer to each other you need to gradually lose protects of the ego – a barrier between you and the world …

The barrier, in fact, is an illusion …

And to see it, one needs to accept the reality as it is – without borrowed knowledge, assumptions, old wars and fights …

Each of us is as fresh as a running river, which no one can enter twice … To see, recognize, accept it and cooperate with it, to turn the mind from the past to the present, allowing yourself to be in the moment, to be dissolved in the space of another, and then in the Cosmos …

These are challenges that can bring you everything you need to understand the world at all levels, gaining wisdom and happiness, opening the magic of unconditional love and compassion, causeless joy and bliss … ability to be unaffected by illusions of suffering …

To be able to create transforming suffering into pleasure – is the highest magic of Tantra – the magic of non-doing …

All this you can open and learn together – this is real life experience …

 Zen provides a firm basis for the ripening of Tantra – pure mind – without suspicions, memories from past lives and experiences of childhood and youth, limiting gender identity, beyond the immature ideas and unfinished gestalt…

You will be able to learn Zen for  relations by participating in group processes, “Who’s inside?” and “Satori”, “Zen – Tantra – Creativity”, individual Zen sessions …

Zen also for the relationship can be integrated into Tantric, the creative team at the request of the participants, or could be the subject of a separate group or coaching.

 
 
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